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Visit from friend just after passing.

Discussion in 'General Afterlife Discussions' started by Dew74, Jan 27, 2021.


Was I dreaming or did she really visit?

  1. Dreaming

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  2. Friend really visited

  1. I have this friend who's wife passed away some years ago from aggressive cancer. She was a God fearing woman that loved everything and everyone. You could say that, she and I were like brother and sister. Near the end of her life she wanted to see me, but due to my work and home life I wasn't able to make it down to see her before she left this earth. I worked nights and slept days, and one day I seen her in my dreams, just standing there, smiling at me. I looked to my left and seen the "light" she was supposed to go to. I told her she needed to hurry before they closed the light and she walked over to it and walked through. By the time I realized what was happening, I also realized I was wide awake. I didn't think much of it and went back to sleep. Later that night, my friend called me to tell me she passed at around 12:10p.m. that afternoon. My "dream" happened at around 12:30p.m. earlier that day. I've been wanting to tell this to anyone willing to listen without being chastised or ridiculed. What are some of your opinions?
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  2. Ruby

    Ruby Established Member

    Excellent story, thanks! Something similar happened to me so I understand how you feel and that, although you understand about hallucinations, the power of the mind to fantasize and so on, you still believe something paranormal happened to you! I didn't not "think much of it" though, as I was very frightened and seemed to pass out where I hid under the bed covers and came to in broad daylight seemingly ten minutes later still in hiding, although it was actually about eight hours after the event. However, your experience, is actually much more evidential than mine as it happened before you had knowledge of your friend's death! This is so very special and is known as a wraith, or a crisis apparitional experience. What you want to make of it is up to you, or more likely, your psychology. Some people can readily just believe in an afterlife and that's that, and others like me turn parapsychologist enthusiast, read papers, books, attend Zoom conferences and join the Society for Psychical Research. It's very enjoyable having such a great new interest. It's a broad church, from scientists to, well, all sorts, and one thing for sure is that life is never quite the same again and death loses its doom and gloom.
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  3. mac

    mac Staff Member

    welcome to ALF Dew74 :)
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  4. Thanks!
  5. jimrich

    jimrich Established Member

    That seems like a real "visitation" from a Disincarnate who was just showing you that she is still alive and well (smiling) over on the other side or Afterlife realm. In my opinion, Disincarnates know how to give us an image or "message" that will fit our level of understanding at that moment. She may come visit you again - or not. They can do a lot of interesting things. I'm glad for you.....

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