I had some beautiful and unexpected experiences in stage three, which was just about allow a peaceful place to come. I had my dog and my beloved Albert appear much to my surprise! Albert and I spoke and he hugged me and said I am doing great, that everything will be OK and I will see how OK it will be very soon. Then, in the next meditation, I had a guide appear and about 20 people, including Albert again. We spoke again and he said some surprising things. Now though, I am stuck on stage four. I have tried about five times to have a successful visit with Albert but it feels forced and far away and I get distracted or just start trying to imagine him and what he would say. I can't see a "place of love" which is what the exercise begins with, and then when I am supposed to walk through a door where my loved one is, it is just too distracting. I don't know what it is. It's quite disappointing and I wonder if I should just move on to stage five.