Hi Bluebird,
Question #1: Mikey tells me it has nothing to do with "belief". It has to do with love and being positive in our ways.

Basically just being nice here goes a long way! You are absolutely loved according to Mikey, no matter what you believe! No worries there!
Question #2: Mikey tells me you will be with your husband and everyone else you love! And chances are you will have one heck of a party! (I just wish I could be there and say, "I told you so girl! All is well here and we are all back together again! Glad we got through that life journey!") Carol

By the way, Mikey tells me that we are human here and getting angry is part of an emotion that happens. No one is "perfect" in human form from his viewpoint.
Carol and Mikey "in Spirit"