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MISSING HER, KNOWING SHE IS SAFE AND STILL HERE, BUT...ANY SUGGESTIONS?

Discussion in 'After-Death Communication' started by Bill Z, Nov 17, 2017.

  1. Bill Z

    Bill Z Established Member

    I just needed/wanted to mention this. If anyone has insight or can offer suggestions it would be greatly appreciated.
    Today was my home office work day, easy day I thought. I was supposed to visit old friends 60 miles away but I could not. Went for cafe con leche (heaven in a cup!) in a Guatemalan place. The TV was on Juanes (a Colombian singer/songwriter) was performing. Susie loves him. I started weeping and had to leave the place and spill half the cup in the gutter so I could drive.
    I wept all day long.
    I know She is safe, She suffered a lot, but I am not evolved enough to emotionally and spiritually comprehend it. She is with me but I miss Her body, the body that was less than 60 pounds when She went back home.
    I am selfish and I am hurting.
    Peace.
     
  2. RobertaGrimes

    RobertaGrimes Administrator

    Bill, I'm sending you a hug. I'm sorry that you're suffering! In my experience, uncomplicated grief (little or no anger, fear, or guilt) generally is much improved in about a year, but it does take fully that long. With other negative emotions associated with it, though, it can hang on for much longer, so please try to forgive yourself, forgive her, and learn all that you can so you will know for certain that she really is healthy now and you will see her again soon!
     
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  3. Unexpected

    Unexpected Guest

    Like Roberta, sending you a big hug too.
     
  4. mac

    mac Staff Member

    I wish we could do something to lessen that hurt. It's a cliche but the passing of time can eventually begin to help heal but time just seems to stop. I've also just been writing elsewhere so I won't repeat what I said there. I hope one day you find the peace you're always wishing us.
     
  5. bluebird

    bluebird Major Contributor

    {{{{{{{{{{bill}}}}}}}}}}
     
  6. jimrich

    jimrich Established Member

    Bill, try to drop the hurtful idea that you are "selfish" and let the tears flow as much as they need to. Weeping is perhaps the best way to release the pain, grief and sorrow so please do not hold it back or feel embarrassed about your perfectly reasonable tears and emotional pain. If you need to fall apart and cry in the presence of others, GO AHEAD! They will just have to deal with it - but don't suffer in silence just to PLEASE (disturbed) others!!!! Based on what I now know, she is in a very good and happy place and is most likely visiting you often with love and respect. Have a medium connect you back with her whenever you can. I wish you peace and relief ASAP.
     
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  7. Bill Z

    Bill Z Established Member

    Thank you everyone. This is really a beautiful helpful community. A lot of good information and advice.
    I went back to the Spiritualist church today and it's a place I can go and gently weep and there is no judgement. The medium connected beautifully with a few peoplethere and brought healing for them and I think everyone there.
    Thanks again and Peace.
     
  8. mac

    mac Staff Member

    This is heartening to hear. :) It's what Spiritualist churches are about, along with a little uplifting philosophy for those who want to listen.
     
  9. Bill Z

    Bill Z Established Member

    Thank you everyone here.
    I purchased an E-Book that has exercises for ADC and it great. I finished the fourth exercise this morning and receives three signs from Susie right after. There is a feeling of peace that is very grounding. I go back to the Spiritualist church tomorrow.
    I just wanted to offer this concern/suggestion. There is another thread about this and if I can find I'll post about this there too.
    There is a lot of misleading BS on the net. IMO a lot of it is fundamentalist fear porn. There are a series of youtube vid's of a woman who claims to be the victim of satanic abuse in a christian church and how she finally found the "real" Jesus. There is so much fear in what she says. She claims to have encountered "paganism" and "wicca" which IMO are the predecessors of Christianity and other religions and compares them with satanism, yet she continued to go to these churches and even subject her children to their teachings. She also said that any ADC is with demons.
    What I feel in my signs and messages from Susie is peace, love and guidance. This person is IMO pretty fearful and twisted and spewing BS. Just my opinion.
     
  10. Bill Z

    Bill Z Established Member

    Lawrence, Larry, my little Cockatiel passed today. How much more I can take I do not know.
     
    Last edited: Dec 4, 2017

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