Ok. I lost my mum almost 8 months ago. I have had some serious issues within myself in dealing with her death and how it went down. I need to communicate with her to get some things off my chest and rest easy knowing I told her these things and was heard. I have experience in communicating with the dead, but my problem is a dilemma I have with communicating with her. When she was living she was very against anything involving the subject. Being that the case I worry that I will upset her by trying to communicate with her. If anyone has any advice as to what I should do, it would be greatly appreciated.