Discussion in 'After-Death Communication' started by DenverGuy, Jan 20, 2017.
I think you have insulted your own intelligence. I can touch my screen and read like I say.
I have another twenty more or so, and have never been wrong. Seen enough?
what a crock!
OK... I honestly dont understand what this BS between mac and georgek is all about. I think, honestly it is off-putting and being a lay person like myself, makes me think there is nothing to be gained from taking part in these discussions.
DenverGuy was looking for some advice, some solace some words that will help him through his grieving of his beloved, who he is desperately trying to contact, to know that she is OK, to know that there is something more, to understand that maybe there is more than this world. I COMPLETELY understand where is and what he wants... i KNOW what he is searching for and this BS one-upsmanship, this trying to prove that one person is better than the other will not help.
We, who have lost loved ones want to know that they are OK.. want to know that they survived, what to know that they miss us as much as we miss them, want to have some contact with them. Something that we can concretely hold onto that we know without a shadow of a doubt proves to us that they live on, they love us and that they will always be with us.
DenverGuy, Milihanna, Bluebird and I are all looking and continue to look for evidence... concrete evidence that our loved ones survive death. We are broken and hurting and on a new path trying to find some absolute scrap of evidence that WE can trust and believe in that yes.. our loved ones survived, and this petty BS about who is better is just off putting and drives people who are novices and trying to find answers away.
Yeah, this is my opinion of what I have seen on this thread.
It is difficult to write constructively when some are trying to discredit and mock both you and your ability.
I find it an intrusion on my points and character to have these consistent mockery jibes with most things that I say. Especially that I need some kind of psychiatric more times than once. We are not here for medical diagnosis. We are here to diagnose and debate subject matter. It came about with a slip about religion with admin. mac made his points about unwanted comments which have trailed from The Trinity post to this post here, in order to show his loyalty to admin.
Sometimes a person has to stick up for themselves, as it is like being tapped with a pencil every time you speak.
I have forwarded a good point towards this discussion only to be attributed by false accusations.
If you are looking for evidence, read my other posts.
Unfortunately with the paranormal, there is never going to be any evidence because people have already made up their mind, that there is no evidence.
I can only do so much..and to try and give these things with onsets from mac is difficult. Hearing words like 'crock' and more besides.
mac writes a lot and feels threatened so he ridicules me.
I am merely sticking up for myself.
I know this is not very good from your angle and I do apologise for it.
The scapegoat will always be me, as I am sure mac will still be around for some time longer, well after I am gone
Your love ones do survive.
I'll leave the members named to decide whether I've tried to be helpful and supportive towards them in the past.
My view is that self-praise is no recommendation. My way is to address points directly, rather than rambling and blustering, believing that to be potentially more helpful. Where I write a lot it's generally in response to points made by others and rarely about me personally. Members may not, of course, think this is of any importance.
What notice we choose to take of the words of others here on ALF is a personal choice but you won't find mac promoting himself with pages of text and/or old screen-captures. Members may not think this is of any importance of course.
I apologise for having taken the thread off-topic but I was so appalled at what I was seeing and I allowed myself to react to it.
I wouldn't change my response but I acknowledge it wasn't the right place to make it. Sometimes in life, though, we react spontaneously to situations we find unacceptable when good counsel would tell us to hold our tongue 'til another time and another place.
Again I'm sorry I derailed the subject of the thread.
This is all I ask for... I wish a medium had just said this to me:
"Mila says to do what you have to do to go through life. I will be here for you. I will love you as before, I will always be with you, I will know that you will love me, and I will see to it that we will be together forever when the time comes. Please know that, don't worry, believe it, and take comfort in that."
I have mentioned that to the psychologist who I see twice per month. Her answer sent a good chill through me: "How do you know that you're not acting as your own medium?" Wow! Does that make sense?
It's certainly possible. There's a great interest in self-initiated contact rather than via a traditional practitioner.
I long to hear this from him as well. The silence is crippling me and as hard as I try to remain positive and lean on the love we shared, I can't keep the fears away. I'm quickly reaching the point where I might give up. Not because I don't love him because I do, more than anything, but because I feel forgotten by him. I know that we are told that isn't the case but actions speak louder than words and so many people around me are receiving signs. If I'm truly honest with myself, I will admit that something is obviously wrong.
What your psychologist said is very interesting though. Definitely something to think about.
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