Thank you BiscuitMan for your kind words. Yes, this site is really supportive and, for me, comforting. It feels good to be amongst like and open minds. I found the resources here extremely helpful, as well as the forums. I’d never heard of Silver Birch before but, thanks to Mac, was given the “heads up” to the book “They Shall Be Comforted” by Maurice Barbanell, which I now keep on my bed stand. When you start looking, there is no much information available (just do your due research before buying books though!)