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Signs and Messages from the other side

Discussion in 'After-Death Communication' started by Jim, Jan 28, 2013.

  1. kim marine

    kim marine Active Member

    No, I don't think it sounds crazy at all. I cherish what I experienced and wouldn't change the accident if I could for a million dollars! I listed below where you can read of my story if you would like.
    Forum: Introductions and helpful information Thread: Hi My name is Kim and I have a story to tell
     
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  2. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    it's here http://afterlifeforums.com/threads/hi-my-name-is-kim-and-i-have-a-story-to-tell.2403/
     
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  3. Monika

    Monika Active Member

  4. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Thank you i will read
     
  5. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Hej. I just want to share one of my latest experience. Im not sure if im in correct thread but for me looks so. I excuse myself if im wrong.
    As some people here i am also using pendulum to comunicate with my husband. And maybe like others sometimes i still get doubts.. and so this keep me struggling. But some days ago i was to visit my friend who is medium. We were just chatting random topics and then suddenly she said that my husband is a little frustrated and annoyed that i keep asking if it is really him and is it real when speaking with him with pendulum. I felt shamed at the moment because it is true, i ask him this so often and probably he took a chance while i was at friend to tell me this. I will never ask those questions again...
    I share this story and hope that for some other people it will help to loose some of their doubts too.
     
  6. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    May I offer my thoughts?

    I hope you will think again and not feel shame about checking - in the only way you can - that it's actually your husband you are communicating with. Based on my experience it's entirely possible for an open channel to be mis-used by a discarnate communicator pretending to be someone close. A pendulum isn't any more secure a way to communicate than any other and might even be considered less secure.

    Perhaps your medium friend could explain to your husband the importance of taking care that unseen communicators are who we think they are. Deception can, and does, occur, even with experienced communicators. Your husband needs to understand that your doubts are well-founded and understandable. His frustration and annoyance are not justified when you are taking as much care as you can.

    He'd be very upset indeed if your communication with him was compromised and you were deceived by another communicator pretending to be him.
     
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  7. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Thank you very much for your thoughts. I find then supportive and helpful. And i also explained for Michel my doubts and i think he understood. On other hand if i think about the situation from other side. If he would be here and i would be there and we would try to speak same way like we do now and if he would keep asking same questions which i ask, i would probably knock him down at some point. So im happy that he still has much more patience then me :)
     
  8. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    In case you haven't seen this already: http://afterlifeforums.com/resources/our-much-loved-member-carol-morgan.8/

    A former regular on ALF some years ago.
     
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  9. Monika

    Monika Active Member

  10. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    I hope it's of interest to you.
     
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  11. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Yes it is definitely. Im very thankful for all information i get because everything is new for me. Thank you mac
     
  12. Bill Z

    Bill Z Active Member

    I hope this is not a left turn by I wanted to mention this. But first to Monika. I hope you get help from this wonderful site. You said: "she said that my husband is a little frustrated and annoyed that i keep asking if it is really him". I work with two mediums, spiritualist church, a ton of books, dowsing, whatever I can find that offers what I consider proof. I am very skeptical and test everything. I'd love to believe nonsense to make me feel better, but I need empirical proof.
    Through a medium a few weeks back the love of my life started screaming at me. I've discussed this with Dr. Hogan and I have to disagree in that he states that all of "their" communications are loving. And yes I agree with that but a medium does not know our intimate communication style (IMO) in the way we do. "I'm talking to you!" "Are you listening to me?!" She hollered over and over. Out of love, She was trying to get through but (IMO) because I'm working from a lower vibration due to depression and grief . I have come to learn and my Susie has told me that there are things I can not understand so it's not anger but trying to get through to my human thick head. "How many times have I told you not to touch the stove" a frustrated loving mom tells her child. Is mom angry or just trying every way possible to get through to the child. In the scope of things I am a child. Hope that makes sense.

    Now for something completely different but related. My Susie gave me an epiphany today. Susie deteriorated physically and mentally in our last 6 years. She was 58 pounds on Her last hospital visit. But She has come to me since and She is full on 100% and our roles have done a 180. She looks after me, as I Once did for Her, from a higher understanding and proved it again today.

    This might sound incredible but I have proof and will take a photo if anyone is interested. I'm getting long winded and should make this brief so I'll do it in an outline form:

    1)Our last two vacations were with Jim & Rosie. Susie loves them and has come to them since Her transition. They witnessed Her fade.
    2)Susie sends me white feathers as a sign, among many other things. She has sent them to Jim & Rosie.
    3)Jim emailed me this morning his cat passed, he was crushed. He told me years ago that he had a parrot that was very similar to his cat. He mentioned that maybe the cat was the reincarnation of the parrot.
    4)I sent Jim a condolence email this morning and mentioned that perhaps the cat was with the parrot or maybe the parrot was the cat.
    5)After I sent the email I go to my car and there is a green feather by my car door. Susie has sent me countless feathers never green. I live in the NYC area not a lot of green birds here....except....see below, but they are many miles from me and never come here.
    6)I get home from work, call Jim to further offer my condolences and ask what color the bird was: Green!!
    7)There are monk parrots here but it's too cold for them right now. I hear a scream in the sky as I'm driving and 4 bright green monk's fly past.
    I have empirical proof with the green feather of nothing I have ever seen here before.
     
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  13. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Wow mac. This is incredible story! I just woke up and mornings for me are the hardest part of a day as i need to face reality over and over again. But i must say that this morning with your post you lifted my spirit up. Though of course first of all what i did is to ask if Michel is somewhere close, if he feels fine and if he had a good rest. But for the first morning i made just one cup of coffee. Not two... because in mornings i still do not realise what hapened and often make such a mistake. Only after i come back to real life, get crushed down and cry all the time while getting ready to go to work. So i want to say big big thank you for your message.
    And i also do need proves, i also try to get answers to many questions. While i am searching for them i can predict that Michel is helping me because very often i get useful information which i need at special moment. But of course much of information what i read i deny as it not feel like true in the gut. So it is not easy.
    And i also am convinced that our loved ones have tons of emotions, same like we do. I read in many different places that after we die we remain our memories, our personality and so on. So why not then remain all the feelings? Not only love but also sadness, frustration and so on. I am learning to work with pendulum and letter board. When i ask Michel how does he feel it is not so that he all time answers that he feels good. Sometimes he say not so good. Reasons are diferent but often when i ask him why he feels not so good he say that because he miss me. So they can miss us same way like we miss them. One time he said he feels hazardous. To say truth i had to google what does this word mean because i never used this word and did not know what it means. After i asked why he feels so. He was scared for me that i want to kill myself. And that day was the one where i had very strong wish to end this suffer. So probably our feelings affect them really strong. I do believe in that.
    Also one more feeling what he said he had was guilt. I asked him if he was close beside me when police came and he said yes and when i asked hiw did he feel when he saw all this, he said he felt guilty. And i asked why? This answer had no reason for me. But he said "i took our situation to my hands and died". I know what he probably mean. He really wished to live here were we live now. Its very up north where winters are longer then 6 months, cold, lots of snow, all we have is caravan and car and i have strong reynauld which does not cope good with coldness. Im very far from family. But i used to say for him how much i love this place. It is our home. Our heaven. He see me here, i told him that ill stay here forever no matter that life is more difficult here especially alone. And i do believe that he feels proud of me same like i do by myself. So no place for guilt my love, i said for him.
     
  14. kim marine

    kim marine Active Member

    I was so glad to read this post and to be reminded of this little tidbit of wisdom. I feel when we raise our vibrations the pieces of this earth will fall in place, and it would be to our benefit to take a good pensive look at nature.
     
  15. Bill Z

    Bill Z Active Member

    Thank you.
     
  16. kim marine

    kim marine Active Member

    Bill, does Susie actually refer to the vibration of this earth being lower than the vibration of her existence? Does she ever talk about different realms that exist at varying frequencies?
     
  17. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    The posting responded to above was written by Bill Z. :)
     
  18. Bill Z

    Bill Z Active Member

    Kim, no this is mostly from reading or what the mediums have said. Susie has told me that She is no longer human and there are things She understands that I do not have the capacity/ability to comprehend at this time. She has also stressed that there is no grief there, grief is a concept of our physical world. She also told me She can be any age She wishes and She is 35 now which is interesting to me because my favorite picture of Her is when She was 35, years before we met. I'm learning that this is a process and we will communicate better as time goes on.
     
  19. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Oh im sorry...Bill Z and mac. Sorry. Early morning confussion
     
  20. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    no problem - easily done :)
     
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