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Signs and Messages from the other side

Discussion in 'After-Death Communication' started by Jim, Jan 28, 2013.

  1. bill zola

    bill zola Member

    I've been having some strange dreams lately. Susie told me a while back, after She transitioned, that some come from me and my uncertainties. For whatever that's worth. I am learning to receive better and She continues to progress in what She and others send to me. If that makes any sense.
     
  2. mac

    mac ALF member Staff Member

    I'm not persuaded we should necessarily take much notice of dreams.
     
  3. lovehim

    lovehim Member

    I'd like to know why. I'm just curious. :)
     
  4. Unexpected

    Unexpected Active Member

    I’ve been learning more and more about dreams. I am a precognitive dreamer so many come true for me. Other times, not precognitive, I can tell it’s stuff I need to work on like fears and such. I’ve read that some of the info we receive is from our higher consciousness helping us, guides, sometimes loved ones and sometimes just regular old dream stuff. I’ve found that all to be true for me.

    Lately, my dreams are not dreams. They are real. I suspect I’m projecting. I often wake up with my whole body vibrating or I can feel a pull. It almost feels like a suction at times. First time ever I was again lucid dreaming but this time I actually “felt” something. That has never happened. I could feel the step I had just put my foot on. It startled me so much that I woke myself up. I’ve now had 3 dreams that are truly not dreams. I suspect I’m leaving my body based on the vibrations and pulling sensations I’m experiencing. I’ve been trying to astral project but not really put a ton of effort into it. The only odd things is I’m not having the same experiences others have where they can see around the room they are in. Perhaps that’s on the horizon as I learn more. I’ve been told I have the skill to do this naturally. This explains a lot of what I’ve been experiencing.

    Mac - I do hope you share your knowledge on this as I enjoy reading about different experiences and what you have learned from others.
     
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  5. mac

    mac ALF member Staff Member

    Our minds are highly creative and a dream may be nothing more than the result of that creativity.
     
  6. mac

    mac ALF member Staff Member

    I'm flattered by the sentiments in your last sentence but dreams are not something about which I have much understanding; they're not my field.

    Former regular-member poeticblue is someone I would have recommended for comment about dreams but she's not here much nowadays. I consider her an expert but others who are regulars here may also have valuable experience to offer you.
     
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  7. Unexpected

    Unexpected Active Member

    Thank you!
     
  8. bill zola

    bill zola Member

    You, she and they are becoming more proficient in finding a matching point vibrationally.

    That makes a lot of sense hardball. I think we are both, Susie & I working to communicate better. Just last week I smelled Her perfume, first time since She transitioned.

    My grandmothing used to dream of Her husband who would always come t her before the death of a family member or friend. Often they were unexpected deaths so my grandmother was not reading into this. I dreamt of being at my father's funeral the night before his first unexpected heart attack. He survived but it was a wake up call. The dreams that Susie sends are much ore vivid than other dreams.
     
  9. Nirvana

    Nirvana Member

    Somehow didn't understand what you meant by this until now. My dad said he will tell the mother eventually.
     
  10. lovehim

    lovehim Member

    Today, I think he sent me "Never Forget You" by Zara Larsson.
    I didn't know the words to this song, but when the song popped into my head, I was able to sing along with just two verses. The same thing happened when Forever played in my dream. I didn't know the word to Forever but when I woke up, I was able to sing along to the song.

    "I’ll never forget you
    And you’ll always be by my side
    From the day that I met you
    I knew that I would love you 'til the day I die
    And I will never want much more
    And in my heart I will always be sure
    I will never forget you
    And you’ll always be by my side 'til the day I die
    Doing it, loving it
    Everything that we do
    And all along, I knew I had something special with you
    But sometimes you just gotta know that these things fall through
    But I’m still tired and I can’t hide my connection with you"
     
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  11. bill zola

    bill zola Member

    Beautiful song LoveHim. I woke up one morning with the Badfinger song "Day after Day" in my head. Like it was written for my little Susie and I.

    Last night She was working overtime. 6 powerful dreams, 2 that She was in and 3 others that I know came directly from Her.
    After Her transition She told me through a medium "I know who you were, I know who you are and I know who you will be". Pretty cryptic but She laid it out last night.
    In the first one I was with my mom searching through the attic of the house I grew up in and collecting notebooks that I wrote and my father wrote, trying to understand his and my thoughts, or coming to know who I was.
    Than I was driving through beautiful scenery and never getting anyplace. Much like where or who I am right now, going through the motions. Beautiful surroundings but no emotion. also with my job I drive sometimes 500 or more miles a week, it's an endless road.
    Last dream I was in a large catering hall with beautiful, loving, helpful people, wonderful food, little animals that reminded me of my little bird Larry. I have a recurring dream of losing my car and not ever being able to find it and that dream could go on all night. In this dream I lost my car again but this beautiful angelic woman gave me directions to the parking lot and I found my car in no time. I might have been in Heaven but there were rules there. Not like here but things to understand and learn from. The woman said some things that I'm still trying to understand but in all it was what Susie told me.

    I weep every day for my little Susie and Larry but I come to understand more each day and I am thankful for this community.
    Peace.
     
  12. lovehim

    lovehim Member

    Bill, the signs just keep coming! It was snowing here this morning but when I looked out the window, it was a beautiful blue sky with clouds straight out of a picture book. It didn't last very long, but it was so beautiful and made me think of him.
    Dreams are the one time when I feel OK knowing he's not here, because he's in them. Your stories are beautiful, Bill- and Susie is talented.
     
  13. bill zola

    bill zola Member

    Maybe they will stop, maybe they won't. Susie stopped with the feathers for several days than they started again. The dreams last night were overwhelming. IMO it's all about love. Of all the books, blog's, websites I've read and people I've communicated with the common denominator is: LOVE. As we have things to do here, they also have work, She showed me that last night. If some type of sign or communication stops I have memories and I know we will be together again. She has told me that if I need Her she's there.
     
  14. lovehim

    lovehim Member

    I haven't gotten a single feather, but I also live somewhere where that wouldn't be all that common... cherish the beautiful dreams you have and know that you'll see her again. It's what keeps me going every day.
    Susie sounds like she's really mastered communication from the afterlife - how I hope he would do the same for me!
     
  15. bill zola

    bill zola Member

    LovingHim, IMO he is and he will. From what others, Susie included, told me She transitioned quickly, She burned off a lot of Karma before Her transition. Her life was a living hell. Civil war including murder of friends, threats by the military, death of both parents early, cancer, apartment fire, long illness, loss of all physical ability, death was a constant companion, it wasn't a picnic. She was probably glad it was over. I know I was relieved for Her (for a minute) when She stopped breathing. Before She transitioned electrical things were already happening, She was ready. She's still working on the communication and getting better but She passed after a lot of suffering and the transition was not hard. Not saying our transitions will be hard or easy but there are things to learn there. And I only know this from Her. They are at peace there.
    We, Susie and I were/are totally crazy people! Fierce in our love and protection of each other so we are in no way normal. Most people need a break when they go on vacation, transition being the ultimate vacation. From the moment I got up it was 0-60 in a minute. I had to carry Her to the toilet and for Her part She would hold it in all night until I got Her there. Sure we used special underpants but nothing is perfect. I'm not saying this to sound crude, just trying to make a point. She'd pee Her brains out several times when I got Her to the toilet. So we lived in a total panic fire alarm situation every day for many years and learned to cope with it. She started taking care of me, as I did for years with Her, soon after She transitioned.
    As I think about this I have to smile. I protected that little monkey with every ounce of strength I had until Her last sweet breath and now She's at peace and in total health and enjoying the other side and taking care of me. She was my 58 pound child when I carried Her for the last time and now She is my protector and I have become Her child...but we will always be lovers, it just deepens through time. Hope this makes sense.
    Peace.
     
  16. lovehim

    lovehim Member

    This is beautiful, bill. Susie sounds like she's doing well in spirit, and I'm happy for you both! I'm so glad you crossed paths.
    You are so kind for all you did for her -- I hope you will be received with bells and whistles upon transitioning.
     
  17. bill zola

    bill zola Member

    Just wanted to mention this:
    My older brother emailed me today. A friend of his was with her friend when she transitioned. The friend had so much more to tell the transitioned person adn kept talking and felt as if she was being heard.
    When she left the hospital she entered an empty elevator and there was a white feather on the floor. Pretty cool.
     
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  18. lovehim

    lovehim Member

    That's beautiful. My paternal grandmother received a plant 25 years ago just before she passed. My parents inherited the plant, and it's the only plant they have that has never died.
     
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  19. Widdershins3

    Widdershins3 Active Member

    In my personal experience, dreams can either be regular ones that originate in the mind or they can be very different and originate with our departed loved ones. I've had both kinds and they feel very, very different. The visits from spirits are *real* feeling--more like memories of an actual meeting with a person we know well. The most striking one I've ever had was so outstandingly different from a normal dream that the memory of it--almost every tiny detail--is still vivid after 35 years. By comparison, I have no memories of other dreams I had back then.

    And, coincidentally, yesterday I was walking down Market St. in San Francisco and a single really beautifully curved, pristine white feather blew down the crowded sidewalk, missing all the other holiday shoppers, and fetched up against my pant leg. It was made more meaningful by the fact that the day before I'd asked for a sign that my son was near me, since winter and especially the holidays are still hard for me, even after all these years.

    My son's birthday was New Year's Eve and my Dad's was January 30th and my son crossed over on November 8th. I used to get white feathers often, but over the years the frequency dropped, which I figured was because I asked less often as my grief became more bearable. But at Xmas I still "shop" for a gift for my little boy, so he's been on my mind more often. All the naysaying in the world will never convince me that that beautiful, clean white feather on the dirty urban sidewalk was anything other than a message to me.
     
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  20. bill zola

    bill zola Member

    Widdershins that is so beautiful. I know, not looking forward to Christmas here. I know they want us to be happy but it takes time and is so very difficult but these beautiful signs make me know that we will be reunited with our loved ones.
    Peace.
     
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