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Signs and Messages from the other side

Discussion in 'After-Death Communication' started by Jim, Jan 28, 2013.

  1. peanutbritt

    peanutbritt New Member

    I received roses, yes. These are significant. The feathers, well I am not so sure...
    I've visited a couple of mediums and while I am convinced all but one of them connected with Albert, either their skills weren't very advanced or he just didn't come through very strongly. I am still looking for a strong evidential medium. I want a clear message from Albert and to KNOW that it is him. I feel like this will help me heal. I am still really struggling with all this as I was expecting to be able to communicate more.

    Can you tell me why Tim Braun was satisfactory? And what do you mean by unpredictable? Did you not connect with whom you were hoping?

    I'll answer the bike question in a private message.
  2. enby

    enby New Member

    i mean finding feathers inside, and multiple times, like that seems pretty definitive. (am i using the right word)

    like sure maybe once you could say was coincidence, but even then how?

    if you have no birds, and no open windows for outside ones to fly in while you're unaware (right? you don't leave any open unscreened windows) how else are these feathers somehow appearing
  3. peanutbritt

    peanutbritt New Member

    Well, there are a lot of birds in this city. Maybe it's just that now I am noticing feathers. As for inside my place, I open the doors on my balcony now and then so it would be possible for little feathers to float in. Though finding that one on my desk really gave me the feeling that it was a sign, so I am hanging on to that.

    I sure wish I could ask Albert about it. I did actually, in a meditation, though I don't know if it was my imagination making up the whole thing. He answered "of course they are! what else?" and then I had the thought come to me that I have bird cages (as decor) all over my house, a few ceramic birds and other images of birds in my place. And...I have a large bird tattoo that covers a third of my back and another bird on my arm. But it was never a "topic" when he was here, it wasn't like, "oh, Britt likes birds". It wasn't anything I ever acknowledged, because I like a lot of things and birds are just symbolic for me. But maybe that fact is my answer right there...
  4. Rassie

    Rassie New Member

    My understanding is that they use what elements are around you. In other words, the feather may have been left by a bird randomly (maybe not ), but it is the thought of the love one that is important.

    While I was caring for my mother, every week when grocery shopping I would purchase a bouquet of flowers for her. After her transition, I continued to purchase flowers to place by her chair.

    It was at my first ever reading that the medium relayed a message to me. Mom said that she appreciated the flowers that I got for her every week, but it was the thought that was more important. That I could in essence give her a bouquet of flowers through my feelings of love. She told me to save my money. :)
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  5. peanutbritt

    peanutbritt New Member

    Who was your medium? I am searching for a good one.
  6. Rassie

    Rassie New Member

    In US - Virginia, Patrick Matthews. a book he wrote, quite literally fell into my hands in a used book store. Never Say Goodbye. (After the death of my father.) Excellent book.

    You can find him on the web. I have been to two of his small group readings. They were very informative and helpful.

    Susanne Wilson is also a wonderful medium. Unfortunately, she is no longer taking new clients. She is focusing on teaching. I will be attending one of her workshops in March.
  7. Bill Z

    Bill Z Active Member

  8. peanutbritt

    peanutbritt New Member

    How long did you all wait after your loved one passed until you contacted a medium?
  9. Bill Z

    Bill Z Active Member

    I had been in contact with her before my Angel died. We were supposed to have a session together with her to see if she could help us. But the morning of the session she called to say she meditated on it and she could not help at that point. I think it was about as week after She died that I first contacted Shoshanna. I've had 4 sessions so far and my Angel is in contact with me now on a daily basis through the white feathers She puts in my path or that drift out of the sky.
    I also read a great book "Ask Your Guides" by Sonia Choquette which helps put you in touch with the various guides and angels.
    I wish you all the best.
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  10. Zac

    Zac Member

    I've done 15 days, 52 days, and 110 days from date of passing to first sitting. Some spirits were able to communicate better than others regardless of the time interval though new information came across in sittings I had years later. For example, I did a sitting 15 days after passing and another sitting with a different medium this summer, about 2.5 years later. Some remarkable and disturbing (about medical malpractice, possibly intentional) details came through.
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  11. Zac

    Zac Member

    What do you make of this audio recorded inside my house?

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  12. peanutbritt

    peanutbritt New Member

    So, an interesting thing happened to me yesterday morning in a coffee shop. My dad had just left the coffee shop and I stayed behind to write in my journal and just think. I had shed a few tears talking with dad about my late Albert and was still teary.

    A man approached me and sat down. He told me that he and his wife had been observing me and he felt compelled to come over to tell me how beautiful I am, and that I seemed to have a glow about me. He wasn't entirely sure why he felt the tug to come over and tell me. I teared up and thanked him, told him the timing was right. He then said that I am a very special person and loved by many. And asked to give me a hug. Then he introduced his wife as she approached, and they left.

    I don't know if it was Albert, my guides, or someone/something else that nudged him to come tell me all that, but it was very welcome and felt like some kind of message.
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  13. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    My feeling is that what happened was very much intended as a message for you. Who instigated the delivery of the message we can only guess at but I think you're pretty close with your suggestions. ;):)
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  14. Rassie

    Rassie New Member

    Between working on my family tree and a personal family crisis, I have been away from Internet forums, such as Afterlife.

    However, I have to share something neat with you! I had my reading with the medium, Susanne Wilson. I have been processing all the information - still am - but this is one thing I am truly excited about and wanted to share.

    I am not sure how I want to tell this. I have come to realize that so many things in our lives are interrelated that sometimes it is so hard to separate the facts. And for the person, who is in the middle of this - me - it becomes mind-boggling.

    Several years ago I started having dreams that I believed included my spiritual guide. Eventually, I came to the conclusion that my guide's name was Nathaniel. It was not a name that I was familiar with - like a family name. When I asked the guide's name, Nathaniel was what I received. And when I asked for verification, all of the sudden I was encountering the name Nathaniel throughout the day.

    So when I was in Salt Lake City, I was able to partially break a brick wall in one family line. The weird thing about it, was once I traced back the line to the 1600's I encountered 3 NATHANIELS. Two of the Nathaniels were ministers - one French Huguenot. I was excited about the genealogy aspect of this, but I must admit for one brief second in the back of my mind I thought - "What if one of these Nathaniels was my guide?"

    So at the beginning of my reading, Susanne said that when she was setting up for my reading, my guide stepped in! He was a minister. The description she gave, which I later researched and confirmed, was that of a French Huguenot clergy! She confirmed that his name was Nathaniel

    The information he asked Susanne to pass to me was exactly why I had the reading! I didn't even need to ask the question.
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  15. SashaS

    SashaS New Member

    Hi everyone! I'm new here. My husband passed away last December. I got different signs from him but the first one was in Valentine's day. I got up in the morning and I open the box of contact lenses and i saw a bubble in the perfect shape of heart. I wasn't aware of the day and I asked my son about that. For me and my love that day was always the day of gifts. He also once bought me a necklace with a heart shaped pendant which I wore oftenly. I'm pretty sure that was a sign from him.
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  16. Bill Z

    Bill Z Active Member

    SashaS that is very beautiful. My fiance transitioned in June of this year and I am learning everything I can about communicating with Her and seeing very good results. There are so many good book out there on this. Best wished for your ongoing communication.
  17. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    Welcome to ALF. :) You've found a thread you can very much relate to.
  18. SashaS

    SashaS New Member

    Thank You Bill and Mac for your welcome! I have days exploring ALF. In reality I have some months exploring about afterlife.
    When my husband passed away I got different signs from him. I got a clear dream in which he told me that the life for him goes on and that he was Ok. Than some other signs and dreams. But after that, some dreams quite the same that he was calling me but we were unable to communicate and later on nothing. That's why I'm trying to find a way. I live in a small country in Europe and we don't have the possibility of a medium or other structures for what I'm looking for. I read some books but I don't know, I see that everything is new for me, also I've two children to grow up, a job to do and a lot of other efforts.
    Anyway, I found different interesting topics here which were helpful to me.
  19. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    I'm always happy to try to help individuals understand the notion of our survival beyond death.

    You are fortunate and privileged to have had clear indications that your husband lives on but my perspective is that for most of us continued-contact with those we love but who have passed is not intended. There are always the exceptions who will tell you how well they continue to communicate with a husband or wife but in practice they are few and far-between.

    Such experience may help you find your own similar way and there is at least one thread here that details member experiences in self-taught communication. I expect those involved will tell you more.
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  20. Bill Z

    Bill Z Active Member

    SashaS I can only speak from my own experiences. When not in work I was a 24/7 caretaker for the love of my life since 2014 as She deteriorated. So, sadly, I have a lot of free time on my hands now. Like you I spend a lot of time reading, researching and practicing any form of communication I come upon. For me it started a few days after Her transition with white feathers. They were everywhere, not just for me but for a close friend of ours. Also other typical signs in the form of electrical interference, etc. They were signs, not direct communications. Through 3 mediums it has progressed to communication and now through dowsing we are in direct contact. I still grieve on a daily basis for the loss of Her physical body and probably will for the rest of my life but She is here, full on and getting better at communicating with me as time goes on.
    I have dedicated my life to developing my skills of communication with Her and others who have transitioned as well as helping others through the process.
    I am in the process of starting to do hospice volunteer work so my total focus, outside of my day job is this work.
    There are many books, online programs, techniques, etc to develop this communication. A local spiritualist church has been very helpful for me. I don't know this sites rules, maybe Mac can tell me, but I can recommend a person who does phone consultations who totally blew me away.
    As I mentioned I was Her 24/7 caretaker. I have never loved nor been loved more in my lifetime by anyone else so our bond is pretty strong and love is the ultimate power in this and all universes IMO.

    Susie will not talk to me sometimes through the dowsing. I always ask if we can talk and often She says no. I have come to learn that there are things that I either can not understand or am not ready to understand. She stated to me very clearly early after Her transition that I am human and She no longer is. She has shown me, and this is not meant to sound cruel or condescending, that I and most of us here are still like children and do not understand what those who have transitioned, as well as our higher selves, understand much more than we are presently capable of.

    Lastly as far as the feathers. I began seeing them before I learned this is a common form of Their reaching out to us, so it wasn't wishful thinking or a self fulfilling prophesy. Just last week I learned about Julian Lennon's White Feather Foundation and how John's message to Julian through a white feather changed Julian's life and the creation of a beautiful charitable organization.

    I wish you the very best in your beautiful studies and experiences, and as horrible as this process is, it is also very beautiful.
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