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Signs and Messages from the other side

Discussion in 'After-Death Communication' started by Jim, Jan 28, 2013.

  1. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Yes it is definitely. Im very thankful for all information i get because everything is new for me. Thank you mac
     
  2. Bill Z

    Bill Z Active Member

    I hope this is not a left turn by I wanted to mention this. But first to Monika. I hope you get help from this wonderful site. You said: "she said that my husband is a little frustrated and annoyed that i keep asking if it is really him". I work with two mediums, spiritualist church, a ton of books, dowsing, whatever I can find that offers what I consider proof. I am very skeptical and test everything. I'd love to believe nonsense to make me feel better, but I need empirical proof.
    Through a medium a few weeks back the love of my life started screaming at me. I've discussed this with Dr. Hogan and I have to disagree in that he states that all of "their" communications are loving. And yes I agree with that but a medium does not know our intimate communication style (IMO) in the way we do. "I'm talking to you!" "Are you listening to me?!" She hollered over and over. Out of love, She was trying to get through but (IMO) because I'm working from a lower vibration due to depression and grief . I have come to learn and my Susie has told me that there are things I can not understand so it's not anger but trying to get through to my human thick head. "How many times have I told you not to touch the stove" a frustrated loving mom tells her child. Is mom angry or just trying every way possible to get through to the child. In the scope of things I am a child. Hope that makes sense.

    Now for something completely different but related. My Susie gave me an epiphany today. Susie deteriorated physically and mentally in our last 6 years. She was 58 pounds on Her last hospital visit. But She has come to me since and She is full on 100% and our roles have done a 180. She looks after me, as I Once did for Her, from a higher understanding and proved it again today.

    This might sound incredible but I have proof and will take a photo if anyone is interested. I'm getting long winded and should make this brief so I'll do it in an outline form:

    1)Our last two vacations were with Jim & Rosie. Susie loves them and has come to them since Her transition. They witnessed Her fade.
    2)Susie sends me white feathers as a sign, among many other things. She has sent them to Jim & Rosie.
    3)Jim emailed me this morning his cat passed, he was crushed. He told me years ago that he had a parrot that was very similar to his cat. He mentioned that maybe the cat was the reincarnation of the parrot.
    4)I sent Jim a condolence email this morning and mentioned that perhaps the cat was with the parrot or maybe the parrot was the cat.
    5)After I sent the email I go to my car and there is a green feather by my car door. Susie has sent me countless feathers never green. I live in the NYC area not a lot of green birds here....except....see below, but they are many miles from me and never come here.
    6)I get home from work, call Jim to further offer my condolences and ask what color the bird was: Green!!
    7)There are monk parrots here but it's too cold for them right now. I hear a scream in the sky as I'm driving and 4 bright green monk's fly past.
    I have empirical proof with the green feather of nothing I have ever seen here before.
     
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  3. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Wow mac. This is incredible story! I just woke up and mornings for me are the hardest part of a day as i need to face reality over and over again. But i must say that this morning with your post you lifted my spirit up. Though of course first of all what i did is to ask if Michel is somewhere close, if he feels fine and if he had a good rest. But for the first morning i made just one cup of coffee. Not two... because in mornings i still do not realise what hapened and often make such a mistake. Only after i come back to real life, get crushed down and cry all the time while getting ready to go to work. So i want to say big big thank you for your message.
    And i also do need proves, i also try to get answers to many questions. While i am searching for them i can predict that Michel is helping me because very often i get useful information which i need at special moment. But of course much of information what i read i deny as it not feel like true in the gut. So it is not easy.
    And i also am convinced that our loved ones have tons of emotions, same like we do. I read in many different places that after we die we remain our memories, our personality and so on. So why not then remain all the feelings? Not only love but also sadness, frustration and so on. I am learning to work with pendulum and letter board. When i ask Michel how does he feel it is not so that he all time answers that he feels good. Sometimes he say not so good. Reasons are diferent but often when i ask him why he feels not so good he say that because he miss me. So they can miss us same way like we miss them. One time he said he feels hazardous. To say truth i had to google what does this word mean because i never used this word and did not know what it means. After i asked why he feels so. He was scared for me that i want to kill myself. And that day was the one where i had very strong wish to end this suffer. So probably our feelings affect them really strong. I do believe in that.
    Also one more feeling what he said he had was guilt. I asked him if he was close beside me when police came and he said yes and when i asked hiw did he feel when he saw all this, he said he felt guilty. And i asked why? This answer had no reason for me. But he said "i took our situation to my hands and died". I know what he probably mean. He really wished to live here were we live now. Its very up north where winters are longer then 6 months, cold, lots of snow, all we have is caravan and car and i have strong reynauld which does not cope good with coldness. Im very far from family. But i used to say for him how much i love this place. It is our home. Our heaven. He see me here, i told him that ill stay here forever no matter that life is more difficult here especially alone. And i do believe that he feels proud of me same like i do by myself. So no place for guilt my love, i said for him.
     
  4. kim marine

    kim marine Active Member

    I was so glad to read this post and to be reminded of this little tidbit of wisdom. I feel when we raise our vibrations the pieces of this earth will fall in place, and it would be to our benefit to take a good pensive look at nature.
     
  5. Bill Z

    Bill Z Active Member

    Thank you.
     
  6. kim marine

    kim marine Active Member

    Bill, does Susie actually refer to the vibration of this earth being lower than the vibration of her existence? Does she ever talk about different realms that exist at varying frequencies?
     
  7. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    The posting responded to above was written by Bill Z. :)
     
  8. Bill Z

    Bill Z Active Member

    Kim, no this is mostly from reading or what the mediums have said. Susie has told me that She is no longer human and there are things She understands that I do not have the capacity/ability to comprehend at this time. She has also stressed that there is no grief there, grief is a concept of our physical world. She also told me She can be any age She wishes and She is 35 now which is interesting to me because my favorite picture of Her is when She was 35, years before we met. I'm learning that this is a process and we will communicate better as time goes on.
     
  9. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Oh im sorry...Bill Z and mac. Sorry. Early morning confussion
     
  10. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    no problem - easily done :)
     
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  11. Bill Z

    Bill Z Active Member

    No worries.
     
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  12. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    One reason an individual who has passed over - but stays around the one 'left behind' - experiences human-like emotions MAY be down to the effect of being close to our 'low vibration' world. Maybe that's one reason we don't get to hear from loved-ones-lost? Remaining in the earth's low and often negative vibration can hardly have much appeal compared with the light, elevated vibration of the etheric level(s). Spiritually-evolved teachers have explained how they have to 'lower their vibrations' to enable them to reach those of human mediums and how that can feel compared with the spiritual level they would otherwise be in.




    Maybe again similar reasons to what I suggested above as does Monika? (I feel for you, Monika, in respect of the place you live - I HATE dull weather and long dark winters along with snow and living in a caravan would leave me miserable beyond words. You say you love the place but I don't think I would!)
     
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  13. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Probably it might be how you say about lower vibrations. Maybe as closer to me he is as more earthly emotions he can get. But i still somehow do believe about remaining feelings and emotions. Maybe level of them might change. Maybe good emotions become much stronger and bad emotions become weaker. Hm. I feel really stuck sometimes because if one question pop out in head then like twenty new questions are following this one question. Sometimes the best way seems to be just go and check out how is it really there. But well....
    Oh and i do love winters and snow and -40 and dog sledding and snowscooters and ice fishing :) and aurora borealis and polar night. Thats magical for me. Though i dont like polar day but have to deal with that :)
     
  14. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    Yes I agree that.

    That's how things used to be for me when I was younger. Now I'm an old fart and that happens much, much less.


    All at the right time....


    It's good that you do enjoy those things. I'm sure I would find those conditions difficult to deal with but thankfully I don't have to.
     
  15. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Come on! :) i checked your age just now and thats faaaar away from being an old fart. For that you need to be like... i dont know...maybe like 113 years. Yeah, that sounds like old to me :)
     
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  16. kim marine

    kim marine Active Member

    The things you say Susie said are the things I remember learning when I was experiencing life in a higher dimension due to the coma I was in. I tried to return to my familiar life, but for some reason I wouldn't wake up. I was experiencing, what seemed like, an endless number of different realities that I thought were this world, but they weren't. Each life in these realities was the same, but every one had a different nuance. I was always assured that I would return, because I had something to do here.
     
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  17. Maria

    Maria Member

    Monika, can you clarify how you communicate with your husband (apart from through a medium). I note that you use the pendulum but I imagine that this would just give binary “yes” or “no” answers.
     
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  18. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    Old is as old feels! ;) And I feel old!! :D:D LOL
     
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  19. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Hej Maria :) i drew a circle on A3 paper and wrote letters all around and so it is kind of "messanger" for us. He just show letters and so we can have conversations what are not limited just with answers yes and no. If sometimes i do not understand letter, we have an agreement, that he do not stop showing letter until i spot correct one. We use nato alphabet so it goes fast to find out which letter he shows. But most time i understand all. Sometimes i get an aswer parts of second before he shows it out. Though only when im really really calm. If i cry rivers while we speak i get answers just through letters and not directly to me. Or just because i cry i am not concentrated enough to hear. When i did this for the first time and got message from him i was crying like 48 hours in a row constantly. From happiness!
     
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  20. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    It's pretty similar, then, to the way Carol Morgan and her son, Mikey, used to communicate.

    Over time her communication became more one of telepathy but when I last heard from her (some years ago now) she still liked to use a pendulum to be sure about certain words.
     
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  21. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Oh about this feeling of being old i totally agree! I feel kind of that too. I felt old when i was kid. Could not feel the way my friends felt about running around all day and playing so when i was 5 or 6 i finnally reached to convince them that i can not run because my legs are short, same like elephant cant jump. Then they left me in peace. Finally! Then i remember my parents were telling something like oh, when you are getting older so it is just your body but in mind you are still like 18 or 20 and for me it was like Huh? How is that possible? I now already feel much older than that! I just could not understand. But at certain age i finally stopped analyzing this in my head as i understood that probably it is very different from person to person. Maybe its true that some say "an old soul". Oh actually! My mom reminded me this just some time ago that when i was 3 and people used to ask like "oh how old are you little girl" i answered "im old". And they kept anoying me like "how old" and then i told "well, like 3!" And i can recall the feeling how i felt not comfortable when they forced me to answer my age because i realized how stupid it sounds for them because it sounded stupid for me too. Like 3! What kind of joke is that that im just 3? :D
    So yes, dinosaur mac, probably i can understand you kind off :)
     
  22. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Yes! Last few days i am reading their conversations and it makes me so happy that there are other people who are using same method :)
     
  23. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    Well she USED to but I've not heard from her in a few years so I just don't know if her conversations with Mikey still happen as they once did.
     
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  24. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    I think we share some similarities.
     
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  25. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Oh i hope they still do at least once in a while. Would be intresting to know
     
  26. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    Yes I wish she'd return and speak again to us....
     
  27. Monika

    Monika Active Member

    Hej to all. I felt confused and little bit sad when people share their signs which they get as songs on radio or some signs while watching TV and similar. I do not listen radio, do not watch TV. We never did also never owned one with husband. At some point i realised that probably he wont give me such kind of signs because it was not part in our life at any case.
    But yesterday i was in this forrum, reading something, then there were some links, so i was just reading one thing after other, just pushing through long evening and the suddenly i opened one source what was not even my interest as i wanted to read an article bellow it. Mistakenly i pushed the wrong one and started to read. Just so. Dont know why. First of all i felt my heart start beating so fast that it felt like it will jump out of chest. Only after i realized the message i just got. Message was so clear. I sent it to my mom and very soon she called me all in tears. It was very emotional but what i would like to share and speak about is the link of reaction. First i guess this message and understanding that it is clearly a message reached my subconsciousness, this gave direct reaction to physical body (increased heart rate and blood preassure. Im not the doctor so this is just the way i can explain how i felt) and only then the information reached my concious where i finally understood the message in my brain. Its super hard for me to explain all in words but does it sound at least a little logical for you?
     
  28. RobertaGrimes

    RobertaGrimes Administrator

    The fact that so few of us listen to the radio anymore does create some challenges for our loved ones who have transitioned! But they still do manage to give us signs. And sometimes, like this, they will lead us to click on something or look at something, and they will channel into our minds the fact that what we are reading or seeing is a sign from them. Congratulations, dear Monika - how wonderful!
     
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  29. Sapphire

    Sapphire Member

    Last week, for a few days, I noticed that my diary had been moved (an inch or two) several times. I found it curious, and slid it back to its original position.

    Last Monday, I decided to place my pen next to it (instead of on top), so that if it moved, the pen would fall. When I came back, the diary had shifted and the pen was on the floor! I put it back, went into the restroom, and while I was in there, I heard the pen hit the floor.

    So I put it back again, and turned around to do something ... and wouldn't you know it, the pen hit the floor again - and I immediately whirled around as if I could catch him in the act and said, "where are you!" [​IMG] I thought it might be Dad, as he was playful and quite the prankster when in the physical.

    I fixed my gaze on both objects and could actually see them moving very, very slowly and the pen was nearing the edge ... and of course it fell.

    I then tried something - put back the book and the pen, and thought to Dad, if it's you and not the fan or the earth's vibrations or whatever, the book and pen will stay (as in proof that he is doing the goofing; it's not physical dynamics). The book and pen remained where they were. And it hasn't happened since.

    I shared this with my husband, and he also now believes that Dad had something to do with this. I had great fun laughing (with Dad?) about it.

    I'm thinking it had to be Dad.
     
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  30. RobertaGrimes

    RobertaGrimes Administrator

    Sapphire, your asking that some phenomenon that keeps happening NOT happen this one time is something I have done myself. It gives you gooseflesh to see it then not happen; it feels like a hug from a loved one. Thank you for sharing your story here!
     

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