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Self-Guided Afterlife Connection Experiences

Discussion in 'After-Death Communication' started by Unexpected, Dec 12, 2016.

  1. peanutbritt

    peanutbritt New Member

    I had some beautiful and unexpected experiences in stage three, which was just about allow a peaceful place to come. I had my dog and my beloved Albert appear much to my surprise! Albert and I spoke and he hugged me and said I am doing great, that everything will be OK and I will see how OK it will be very soon.

    Then, in the next meditation, I had a guide appear and about 20 people, including Albert again. We spoke again and he said some surprising things.

    Now though, I am stuck on stage four. I have tried about five times to have a successful visit with Albert but it feels forced and far away and I get distracted or just start trying to imagine him and what he would say. I can't see a "place of love" which is what the exercise begins with, and then when I am supposed to walk through a door where my loved one is, it is just too distracting. I don't know what it is.

    It's quite disappointing and I wonder if I should just move on to stage five.
     
  2. Rassie

    Rassie New Member

    I would say it wouldn’t hurt to move to stage 5.

    I was unable to meditate. I have been having some late nights. So when I try to meditate I fall asleep.

    So I need to be a bit more rested.

    PS - Worried that the battery power on my iPad was running low. Just checked it. 22%! Love it!
     
    Last edited: Oct 2, 2017
  3. Unexpected

    Unexpected Guest

    I would suggest that you share with Craig the challenges you are encountering with Stage 4. He will provide you feedback and also let you know if he suggests moving ahead.

    In my experience, I found expectations can present an issue. Especially if I expected one session to be just like the last or expected something in general. Not saying that's your case but wanted to share it just in case.

    I once asked Craig if it was okay to do it everyday. He said yes. I couldn't do it everyday but I did it a lot and it got easier the more I did.
     
  4. lovehim

    lovehim New Member

    The links are missing on the website to the stages. Does anyone know why?
     
  5. Unexpected

    Unexpected Guest

    Hello lovehim! Did you register first? After you register, Craig will provide you with passwords as you complete each step.
     
  6. lovehim

    lovehim New Member

    Hi, I did. It had been working and then suddenly it didn't.
     
  7. lovehim

    lovehim New Member

    Specific question to you: how soon after the passing did you start connecting? And how many trials did it take?
     
  8. Bill Z

    Bill Z Established Member

    Hi LoveHim,
    Your question wasn't addressed to me but I took Craig's course (as well as others) and I just wanted to reply if it helps or is of interest.Susie transitioned on 6/28/17 and this was before I knew anything about the Spiritualist church or specifically After Death Communication and so many books and websites dedicated to this. My grand mother on my mother's side communicated with her deceased husband and my father and I both had/have precognitive dreams, so it's on both sides of the family.
    Shortly after Susie Transitioned She started sending me white feathers. The more they appeared and the strong feeling I got when I saw them, they were almost an iridescent white, I knew I needed to pay attention. She still sends them but now we communicate, as opposed to just signs, through dowsing and dreams and meditations. I started Craig's work in October, already 4 months after Susie started sending me signs and it has helped a lot to hone my (our) skills. I believe that as much as I try to become a more skilled receiver of Her messages She is becoming a better sender.
    Susie could not talk for several years and She deteriorated physically and mentally to the point that I had to carry Her from bed to the bathroom to the wheelchair and back and forth. It was crushing to see a vibrant person, pianist, dancer, major intellect etc, etc slowly become like an infant. In one of the most powerful meditations/visualizations from Craig's exercises we were standing in our kitchen, where we loved to cook together. She was wearing a dress, looking very hot and said "we are equals again"! Wow! Blew me away.
    In spite of this I continue to grieve every day. She has told me She is no longer human and does not grieve but understands that I do and is concerned about it. But the communications and signs help. For what it's worth I know we will be together again and thinking about Her and others greeting me when I transition makes the pain a little less.
    Peace
     
  9. lovehim

    lovehim New Member

    Thank you, bill. I appreciate your posts on this site and relate to a lot of what you're going through. I'm going to maybe attend a spiritualist church next week in my city just to check that out as well. I have some powerful experiences in the self guided connections but I can never be sure that it's not my imagination. Of course, this is only my second week trying it, and my grief is "fresh." I've had some success using his ITC technique to try and communicate and have gotten a handful of responses that I know aren't made up, including, "I am here, in spirit," after I said, "I miss you"

    I think knowing we'll be together again is the one thing saving me. My sister thinks I'm crazy for trying these communication techniques and my mother, herself a strict Catholic, would probably think I was summoning demons.

    A few times, though the self guided meditations didn't lead to a connection, it gave me a very nice experience with meditation. I've never been able to meditate well because I can't keep my mind blank, and something about this self guided meditation for connection makes it so that I'm able to at least stay still.
     
  10. Bill Z

    Bill Z Established Member

    Thank You LoveHim.
    Please don't worry if someone thinks you are crazy, they are struggling with their own existence and faith IMO.
    Some people accept what I'm experiencing, some think I'm nuts. No worries. This is strange, unusual and in some cases frightening to some. To me it is beautiful reality.
    Consider that much of what we are indoctrinated with about after life communication is movies or books like poltergeist, dracula, night of the living dead....hahaha...you know really cheery stuff. TPTW (the powers that were) the organized religions, governments, etc need to control us and if we recognize and experience the power of who we really are as spiritual beings we probably won't listening to their BS nor be tuning in to the latest fashions, fads, tv shows etc, etc. at the exclusion of our spiritual lives.
    I was raised roman catholic and much of what I do and believe is blasphemy in their eyes. Yet I feel absolute love from Susie so how could it be wrong.
    Sorry to get political but IMHO we are all one! And when we understand and experience this and the fact that there is no death the power brokers of the world fade away.
    Peace.
     
    Last edited: Dec 9, 2017

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