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He's not in the ground!

Discussion in 'General Afterlife Discussions' started by jimrich, Aug 23, 2018.

  1. jimrich

    jimrich Active Member

    i recently visited a grave with some family members and, as we stood there looking down at the grave, while the family members spoke to the (dead) person buried there, i felt an urge to tell all of them that he's not down there in the ground - he's up here in the air all around and above our heads! So I stood there looking up and AT what I perceived to be the spirit or essence of the Disincarnate who was not and never was buried in the ground BUT I said nothing to the grieving family members who were so convinced that their departed loved-one is dead and buried in a grave. But I've learned the hard way that most folks cannot or will not accept that Disincarnates do NOT hang out in the GROUND. I'm not a psychic but I was very aware that their still LIVING loved one was right there in and with all of us up in the air and NOT dead in the ground. Oh well......... so be it.
     
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  2. Kurt

    Kurt Well-Known Member

    I feel like if it was not so sad the disincarnate might be slightly amused.
     
  3. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    I'm not psychic to my knowledge yet when, on occasion, I get talking to folk about their loved ones passed over I sometimes feel they are with us listening, perhaps watching. But other than in general terms I don't say too much because without something the other individual is able to relate to it's probably not going to help much.
     
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  4. RobertaGrimes

    RobertaGrimes Administrator

    In the older communications - say, a century old - the dead will sometimes lecture their living loved ones about their own frustration that their graves are being visited and tended when they are so clearly very much alive! And there are also communications from dead folks who appreciate the tokens left at gravesites. It's clear that we remain idiosyncratic individuals for a while after we transition!
     
  5. mac

    mac senior member Staff Member

    And idiosyncracies may result from the (comparatively) spiritually-unprogressed situation of individuals. Those who know more, have experienced more, have progressed further spiritually may have - should have! - more understanding.
     
  6. RobertaGrimes

    RobertaGrimes Administrator

    Wonderful point!
     
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  7. pandora97

    pandora97 Well-Known Member

    Let's hope so...…..imagine spending eternity with all those idiosyncrasies! ;)
     
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  8. jimrich

    jimrich Active Member

    They are! Disincarnates do not take anything "personally" - especially "earthly" stuff.
     
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  9. jimrich

    jimrich Active Member

    LOL, I had to look up the definition of: "idiosyncrasies". That's one of my own idiosyncrasies!
     
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    genewardsmith Active Member

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