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Feeling blue

Discussion in 'Member Introductions' started by Debbie, Mar 29, 2019.

  1. Debbie

    Debbie New Member

    Hi, my name is Debbie. I lost my beloved early February. Both of us always believed in heaven afterlife, Jesus God angels. Ivam having anharf time dealing with his death. I am search, listen,etc for a sign. But nothing. Each time I think is that you my mind later says no. I will continue to read the posts and learn more about communication. Thank you
  2. mac

    mac Staff Member

    welcome to ALF. :)

    I'm sorry you're joining us the way you are but you're in good company because quite a few folk come here looking for understanding about death and what follows.

    Your bereavement is very recent and we're told it can be hard for loved ones to reach us when we're in deep distress. Signs and symbols may be around you even though you're not picking them up. Please try not to become fixated on them though - healing can take some time and things may change when the initial shock and distress have lessened a little.

    As you've mentioned Jesus, God and angels you might also be interested in following website owner Roberta's blog, http://robertagrimes.com/blog
    Last edited: Mar 30, 2019
  3. poeticblue

    poeticblue member

  4. So Sorry for your loss. Grief takes different amounts of time for everyone. You can be sure your loved one will send signs at some point. My mom always loved birds and I had some birds get downright brave with me and come sit right by me , I knew it was mom stopping by to say hey I can be anything I want and go anywhere I want.......free at last. She suffered from Alzheimer's. Just do what your doing --learn more about the afterlife. There is Roberta Grimes you tubes where she is interviewed by people. If your more religious you might like listening to Swedenborgs --off the left eye channel on you tube.
  5. jimrich

    jimrich Established Member

    Each time I think is that you my mind later says no.
    Yes, the doubting, fearful, cynical, conditioned and limited MIND will always block or ignore subtle signs from Disincarnates so watch for an opportunity to notice a sign and then say "Hi honey, welcome back." He'll love finally being recognized by you. As you let him in, more and more signs will appear, especially in dreams where the doubting mind is not present. good luck, jim
  6. Kurt

    Kurt Major Contributor

    Glad to see you back!
  7. Luna

    Luna New Member

    Hello, and welcome.

    It can be difficult to rid oneself of that skepticism or self-doubt, because in the end we can't physically prove it 100%- there's always this margin for doubt. When I was grieving, I asked for signs and received them, but even then at times I would second guess myself- "was it a coincidence?". In retrospect, I know I was too overcome by sadness and anxiety to truly accept it. Try to keep an open mind and don't push yourself. Don't cause yourself more stress over the signs.

    Grief is difficult, and I know everyone manages it differently, but try to take care of yourself too. I hope you can find what you are looking for~

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