My dad

[knight1985]

Hi guys,

I have been away from this forum for a long time. Mostly due to my dad's illness, and coz i thought too much thinking about the afterlife wud drive me nuts. Well on the 26th my dad passed away peacefully. Ever since, i have been broken up inside. iv missed him so much, and i dunno if i will ever see him again? what if he decides to reincarnate, would i see just a "projection" of him? I tried to catch him in my dreams, nothing at all. M so eff'd up! the thought of spending about 40 yrs, or maybe a lil less, without him scares me! If i cud hire a psychic, i would, but i dont hve that kind of money, esp after spending a lot on dad's treatment. . Is it over? i wont see him again?

[EndlessEight]

Hi buddy.

I'm. Sorry about your loss.

Despite your father not living physically, he lives in your heart and your memories. Celebrate his life.

Don't be afraid, he is with you smiling.

[vic smyth]

Hi Knight,

My heart goes out to you. You must have loved your dad very much, that is a gift in itself. I wish I had some wise words to take your grief away, unfortunately it takes time. Yes, celebrate his life, and keep the love you had between you alive.


With Lovingkindness (metta),
vic

[Bella]

Dear Knight,
I am so sorry for your pain. Your Dad transitioned just a few days ago. It takes awhile for them to get adjusted, but if you try to remain open (rather than giving in to guilt and anger as I often do lately), I am sure that you will receive signs that he is near you. Then you will be able to have him closer to you than you ever had him before. Speak to him and imagine what he would say. I have read often that they are closer to us than they ever were before because they know our thoughts. Ruth Montgomery, through channeling the medium Arthur Ford, said that we truly don't know each other on earth. Only when one crosses to the other side, can we begin to truly know each other.

I have found comfort in this poetic excerpt from the ancient poet Rumi:

Now that You live here in my chest,
anywhere we sit is a mountaintop.

And those other images,
which have enchanted people
like porcelain dolls from China,
which have made men and women weep
for centuries, those have changed now.

What used to be pain is a lovely bench
where we can rest under the roses.

I hope my words can begin to help.

[knight1985]

Thank u both for ur replies. Have any of u ever lost someone and heard from them?

[Bella]

Yes, Knight,
I lost my husband May 3rd and saw him as I was between awake and asleep, on May 29th. My eyes were closed and it was like I was watching a television that had gone grey, when suddenly he startled me because I saw him waving his arms at me. By that point, I was awake and knew that if I tried to analyze the situation he would be gone. He gradually faded, but later on a medium told me that he appeared to tell me that he had transitioned successfully. I have read that if you take a nap in the afternoon (when you're not too tired), you create the circumstances where they can come to you in that state when you are between awake and asleep. Maybe you could try that. Since then, I have heard from him many times, but lately, as I have become more depressed, with guilt and anger, I hear from him less.

[Birki]

Hi Knight,

It is very good to see you again, but I am sorry to hear of the reason for your return. I am glad to hear your dad's passing was peaceful and I hope it gives you some comfort to know that he is no longer ill, and has left his earthly worries behind. I am sure your dad knows you love him very much and I hope he tries to communicate with you when you are both ready. I wish you peace during your time of grieving.

[WWE LOVER]

Hey Knight,

My condolences regarding the passing of your father.

But yes, you will see him again.

[orangeysky]

Knight, Love, Light and Peace be with you. It's only a short separation until you are reunited with your father. Until that time yes, there are many ways you can possible connect with him but I'm waiting for the big gun on this site to assist you in that process. In the meantime there are many threads on this site with much detail about communicating with our departed loved ones so I hope that you are able to find and read some of those to help guide you and give you some peace.

[knight1985]

What Big gun are u talking about?