Phone Calls From Recently Deceased Mother, Any Advice ?

[Bella]

Chrismc3,
This was such a wonderful validation! From my understanding, when a message is clearly conveyed, and the interaction lasts a long time, (as opposed to fleeting) it is a visitation, rather than a dream. I think she was trying to tell you that she is happy now - happy with you and your role in her life - and that she is always with you, as you walk around the neighborhood and go through your day. As for the camera, I am not sure, but I do know that if I start to think too much during a visitation, I will wake up.

[Carol and Mikey]

Chrismc3,
Wow! Your mom heard you. That to me was a major communication dream. It doesn't get much better that that! The fact you could feel her, see her in her peaceful and healthy state, and enjoy time with her is quite the gift. Bella said it perfectly what your mom is trying to tell you! Mikey says this type of "experience" is real. He terms it "astral travel". Now it is your choice as to whether you want to believe it or not. I have had dreams like this with Mikey and I knew in my heart I was with him. It helped me so much! I too asked for something like this (out loud) to validate his existance soon after his accident. I would get so excited to see him, it would wake me up! Then I was sad. I wanted so bad to get back into the dream or experience. Feeling him and holding him in my arms was beyond glorious for me! I know it was real.
Take this for what it is my friend! What a gift your mom gave you!
Carol and Mikey "in Spirit"

[chrismc3]

There is one very strange thing though...Neither one of us seemed to acknowledge her 'Death' in any way, she made no mention of it and I was afraid to, thinking that maybe if I did, she would realize she was not supposed to be there, and thus return to the 'Other Side'. I remember thinking that either she did not realize she was dead, or...maybe...(like me)...she also did not want to draw attention to it. Keep in mind (as I said before) that I also did not realize I was dreaming, it seemed SO very real to me, just a normal (but glorious) day that I did not want to end, only I was spending it with my VERY 'Dead' mother !

I think this is why I felt it so important to take a 'Digital' picture of her...IOW...with the time / date...etc...so that I could say..."Look, there IS 'Life After Death', here is the proof !"..."My mother was dead 3 months ago and now here she is, safe and sound !"

But as I said...Right at the moment the guy was going to snap our picture, I awoke :-(

Any thoughts on this ?

chrismc3

OBTW...I talked to my mother today - (a one sided conversation) - telling her I wish (and hope) she will visit me more often, if even in a mere dream, it was SOooo good just seeing her face, talking to her, spending even a miniscule amount of time with her, dream-state or no...it would ALWAYS be well worth it !

I truly hope she could hear me and will respond accordingly, but I realize it is not up to me, and she has her own journey to follow :-)

[Bella]

There is one very strange thing though...Neither one of us seemed to acknowledge her 'Death' in any way, she made no mention of it and I was afraid to, thinking that maybe if I did, she would realize she was not supposed to be there, and thus return to the 'Other Side'. I remember thinking that either she did not realize she was dead, or...maybe...(like me)...she also did not want to draw attention to it. Keep in mind (as I said before) that I also did not realize I was dreaming, it seemed SO very real to me, just a normal (but glorious) day that I did not want to end, only I was spending it with my VERY 'Dead' mother !

I think this is why I felt it so important to take a 'Digital' picture of her...IOW...with the time / date...etc...so that I could say..."Look, there IS 'Life After Death', here is the proof !"..."My mother was dead 3 months ago and now here she is, safe and sound !"

But as I said...Right at the moment the guy was going to snap our picture, I awoke :-(

Any thoughts on this ?

chrismc3

OBTW...I talked to my mother today - (a one sided conversation) - telling her I wish (and hope) she will visit me more often, if even in a mere dream, it was SOooo good just seeing her face, talking to her, spending even a miniscule amount of time with her, dream-state or no...it would ALWAYS be well worth it !

I truly hope she could hear me and will respond accordingly, but I realize it is not up to me, and she has her own journey to follow :-)

Carol, Mikey, Roberta and others - correct me if I'm wrong, but if this was astral travel, then she was allowing the visit that you were taking to go to her on your travel. I have had this and so have my sons. It is common that the person seems very much alive during this visit because they are alive. They have a new life over there and you went there to see part of it.

[chrismc3]

I'll be darned...Maybe that IS the answer Bella, maybe it was not so much HER visiting ME, but rather ME visiting HER ?

Something to at least think about :-)

Lets see what other kind of input we get on this matter...Anyone else...anyone else ?

chrismc3

[Carol and Mikey]

Bella,
You are correct! Chrismc3, you both didn't talk about death during that glorious reunion you had because your mom didn't "die"!!!!!!! Your mom is very much alive! And you obviously saw and felt that! According to Mikey, with "astral travel" you know what is real. Your subconscious knows what is happening. Mikey says you leave your body with astral travel. (How's that for crazy?) But Mikey tells me that actually is what happens. So lucky you for that great adventure! Again I say, what a gift you got from your mom! Please take this for what it is!
Carol and Mikey "in Spirit"

[chrismc3]

Hey There Carol, (and Mikey)

If it is truly possible, (and I guess I know now that it is) it does not surprise me that my mother is able to communicate with me, we were VERY close, pretty much together every day for the last 15 years and for the better part of the last 30 years. I signed up for a consultation with CJ yesterday, but have not heard back from her yet, its the week-end, so maybe sometime early next week. (?) She has my e-mail, plus phone #, so I will just have to wait for her to contact me.

I reached out to my mother early this morning and asked her if she wouldnt mind communicating with me via CJ, so I have at least given her the 'Heads Up', just as you (I think) suggested I do, and also CJ suggested on her web-site, so we'll just have to see where things go from there. I am excited, yet still a bit nervous at the same time. I searched the net high and low for info regarding this woman and could not find anything negative concerning her, everyone seems to just love her, I think my mother would get along fine with her, although she would NEVER go for that sort of thing normally.

Bless You :-)

Have a great week-end !

chrismc3

[Nadine510]

i just wanted to share something that happened to me this weekend............. not sure what it means if anything but.............. i was heading to a friend of mines house , its about an hour and a half drive, and usually when i do take the ride there i talk to my deceased boyfriend and father (hoping they hear me)... but anway as always i begged my boyfriend and father for some kind of sign, believe me i am positive my boyfriend has sent me many but i still cant get enough if that makes any sense............ anyway after i got to my friends it was a few hours later my phone rang and it came up 111, i just looked at my phone and showed my friend and said thats weird i never seen anything like that before, it did not hit me until the next day that this could of been a sign from my boyfriend or my father, i went into my call log and clicked on the number to call it back and the operator said you can not make the call as dialed which i already know i cant dial 111 and get anyone but i recalled the number that called me and thats what i got.......... anyway could this be a computer calling my phone, or like a tellemarketer , i have no clue, But i'd like to think it might of been a sign from my father or my boyfriend that has passed.

[chrismc3]

i just wanted to share something that happened to me this weekend............. not sure what it means if anything but.............. i was heading to a friend of mines house , its about an hour and a half drive, and usually when i do take the ride there i talk to my deceased boyfriend and father (hoping they hear me)... but anway as always i begged my boyfriend and father for some kind of sign, believe me i am positive my boyfriend has sent me many but i still cant get enough if that makes any sense............ anyway after i got to my friends it was a few hours later my phone rang and it came up 111, i just looked at my phone and showed my friend and said thats weird i never seen anything like that before, it did not hit me until the next day that this could of been a sign from my boyfriend or my father, i went into my call log and clicked on the number to call it back and the operator said you can not make the call as dialed which i already know i cant dial 111 and get anyone but i recalled the number that called me and thats what i got.......... anyway could this be a computer calling my phone, or like a tellemarketer , i have no clue, But i'd like to think it might of been a sign from my father or my boyfriend that has passed.

May just be, if you read my original posts you know I have been going through much of the same thing, the fine people on this forum tell me to just accept it, but I also still struggle. Does seem though like the more it happens, the more accepting I get towards things (signs) like that.

I will (hopefully) be going through a Medium soon, so my hope is to remove all doubt, wish me luck.

chrismc3

[Bella]

This is strange, Nadine 510 and Chrismc3, but if you look at the thread of Rude Awakening, she and Roberta, and others have been seeing the numbers 111, 1:11 (on digital clocks) everywhere lately. These seem to be divinely inspired.
Chris, CJ Sellers takes awhile to respond, but she will. She is overbooked because she is in such demand. She contacted me a week or two ago and I got an appointment for 10/27. She said that I should prepare questions by writing them prior to the session and then Spirit will respond (including questions about life agreements). I will let you know how it goes. She will respond to you with an appointment date soon.