The medium who mentioned the squats was just someone I had been speaking with on the phone, whom I had never met, and who did not know my last name. I was explaining to her why I wanted to take her mediumship class. She was not giving me a reading. I had gone to two other mediums. They each said consistent things and introduced new information, most of it very valid. I did not spend too much money. One reading was a radio reading and was free. Then I went in person and he did not know he'd spoken with me, the same person on the phone. He said many of the same things, thus the consistency.
Dear Bella, I am sorry not to have carefully read the post that started this thread. You have asked for my thoughts, and here they are! I think that what your son had was in fact a communication dream - I have flown in a communication dream as well, and his dream otherwise had normal physics. Is the dream still vivid in his mind, like a genuine memory? If yes, then it was a communication dream for certain. Some further thoughts:
1) What Mikey says above is precisely what I understand to be true: there are lots of celebrations in heaven, but no weddings. Jesus is right in saying that in heaven we neither marry nor are given in marriage. So your son misinterpreted that scene a little bit, and your husband is still waiting for you ;-)!
2) Your husband was likely wearing "spirit robes," which are the sort of long tunics that angels wear and are generally pale pastel or white and dimly glow. This scene must have been beautiful!
3) When everything "went gray," your son was leaving the higher vibratory level of the Summerland. People often report that they seem to be in a gray fog for a bit, which I suspect might be a way to protect them from the outer darkness level that apparently lies between. Why he had to leave so abruptly it is impossible to say, but it could have been nothing more complicated than a loud earth-noise or other disruption in his sleep.
4) That vibration that he felt in his body upon what was apparently a rather hurried and haphazard re-entry also is commonly reported. We leave and return through our chest or through the top of our head - not sure why he felt the vibration in both places, but since our astral bodies are not physical he could perhaps have quickly re-entered through both simultaneously. And he felt the vibration as if it were in his bed, but it was in fact his body that was vibrating a bit as it felt the re-entry of his astral body vibrating at the higher Summerland level and settling down.
5) The fact that you felt better that morning likely means that you were at that Summerland party, too! Perhaps your son's experience validated that for you on a subconscious level, which further affirmed that great experience and lightened your heart.
This is wonderful, dear Bella! Thank you so much for sharing it with us!!
Thank you so much for the wonderful, thorough response. I so appreciate it!!! Might my over soul have been at that celebration?
You are very kind to care about that and express it to me. Twice, the readings were free, twice they were very, very cheap, and once it was, I admit, expensive, but I was, at that time, a wreck, and needed it. I agree that my sons, especially the one who is trying to help me with the OBEs, and you guys, Carol and Mikey, are all such a blessing. I love you all. I hope we can meet soon, and I hope I can survive this. Every day is a struggle to get through, so I reread all the things that make me feel better in the morning, and pray that I can fend off daily attacks.
As I was hitting "Post" on my post above, it occurred to me that the whole scene could well have been a communication from your husband, letting you know symbolically that he loves you and is waiting for you. That was why it looked to your son like a wedding - that ultimate symbol of love. And since we often travel to the Summerland while our bodies sleep, it might not have been just your oversoul at that celebration, dear Bella - it might very well have been you yourself!