Video of Carol & Mikey Communicating

[mac]

Mac,
I apologize. I thought I recalled you saying that even the best mediums are not 100% accurate. Maybe that was someone else. I understand and share your concern about the dangers of trying to duplicate the 'Carol and Mikey' communication, but I feel Mokandi's sadness and I hope that at least Mokandi can seek some kind of solace through researching the various possibilities that have helped others here.

Yes I understand and agree with what you say....

[mokandi]

I'm trying. And I appreciate. I'm really struggling. I can't forgive myself. I miss him too much.

[DaughterDearest]

This may sound really negative and I apologize in advance, but I've watched the video a couple of times now and I'm having a really hard time believing in this since I can see your fingers and hand making the pendulum move.

I'm a bit of a skeptic by nature, but I want nothing more in the world than to believe in this sort of communication. To be honest, I'm not sure what I believe anymore. Is there a God? Is there an afterlife? CAN we communicate with our deceased loved ones? I want nothing more than to believe I'll see my mother and father again, but I don't know anymore.

Anyway, sorry to be a Debbie Downer. I just don't "buy" it.

[poeticblue]

This may sound really negative and I apologize in advance, but I've watched the video a couple of times now and I'm having a really hard time believing in this since I can see your fingers and hand making the pendulum move.

I'm a bit of a skeptic by nature, but I want nothing more in the world than to believe in this sort of communication. To be honest, I'm not sure what I believe anymore. Is there a God? Is there an afterlife? CAN we communicate with our deceased loved ones? I want nothing more than to believe I'll see my mother and father again, but I don't know anymore.

Anyway, sorry to be a Debbie Downer. I just don't "buy" it.

DaughterDearest

You don't sound negative per say... you just sound like someone who is wanting someone else to give them proof and do the work for you instead of you finding your own truth by yourself.. we cannot sit here and hold your hand and give you the proof.. We can walk this general path together but only you an walk YOUR path on your own and figure it out for yourself... We cannot spoon feed you the answers and I am sorry if that comes off harsh but Carol is not trying to con anybody here what so ever. Why would Carol come on here and tell you this if she wasn't telling you the truth if she is not:

A. Charging money for this
B. Looking for attention
C. Posting multiple threads shoving her beliefs and messages down our throats.

You want the answers.. you have to seek and find them for yourself. We can help you but we cannot give them to you. You see her hands and fingers moving and I don't. I am the first one who would call someone out on their lies and I for one do not see it here. If I did then I would say it. Period.

[Celera]

Although it is Daughter Dearest's post today that called my attention to this thread, as I read through it I had a thought about some of the earlier posts about waiting for some period of time between visits to a medium or communication with the deceased. It seems to me that, especially if one is able to establish some connection with a "lost" loved one, seeking further communication or information or just the desire to remain in the company of someone who has passed on, might become a bit obsessive, and actually get in the way of the grieving process. I'm not saying this happens regularly, or necessarily applies to the individuals who posted here. But I can imagine someone becoming so focused on their deceased loved ones, that they might be distracted from the loved ones who remain here, or from their own needs or their own purpose in this life.

The recommendation to wait for a bit before contacting them again might, then, be intended as a gentle nudge back toward the survivor's "real" life and present duties, opportunities and relationships. Remaining too engaged in communication with the dead may be a way of avoiding the healthy and necessary process of mourning.

[Roberta Grimes]

This may sound really negative and I apologize in advance, but I've watched the video a couple of times now and I'm having a really hard time believing in this since I can see your fingers and hand making the pendulum move.

I'm a bit of a skeptic by nature, but I want nothing more in the world than to believe in this sort of communication. To be honest, I'm not sure what I believe anymore. Is there a God? Is there an afterlife? CAN we communicate with our deceased loved ones? I want nothing more than to believe I'll see my mother and father again, but I don't know anymore.

Anyway, sorry to be a Debbie Downer. I just don't "buy" it.

Hello again, dear DaughterDearest! I must confess that I don't see her hand moving the pendulum in this video, although I do see it shaking as she tries so hard to avoid letting it move as the pendulum moves. That pendulum has weight, and sometimes it moves vigorously! I have seen Carol and Mikey communicate this way in person a number of times and from various angles, and I can assure you personally that the pendulum moves entirely without her hand moving it. I was a complete skeptic when I first met Carol 17 months ago, and I really was trying to spot the trick! But there is no trick. That day I saw Mikey give through Carol wonderful personal messages to a series of bereaved mothers, and those messages sometimes had them in tears. I am confident that what Carol and Mikey are doing is real, and not so much because I have seen them do it but primarily because when I first met Carol she knew nothing whatsoever about the afterlife. Yet through her from Mikey has come a long series of perfect answers that could have come only from a very advanced and highly knowledgeable being. I have spent my life in this research! Yet Mikey knows even more than I do. And that is something that nobody could fake ;-)!

[DaughterDearest]

Hello again Roberta (and all)!

Again, I didn't mean to sound like a Negative Nancy and I do apologize if I sounded insulting to Carol (and Mikey). That wasn't my intention nor will it ever be. I'm usually not one to stir up trouble (haha), I just find I'm questioning everything nowadays.

Yes, poeticblue, you're right in that I'm searching for answers. I have been for quite some time now. I just don't know what to believe!

I wish I could just pick up the phone and call my deceased loved ones on the other side. That would make my search so much easier and answer so many questions! *sigh*

[Fasaga]

Although it is Daughter Dearest's post today that called my attention to this thread, as I read through it I had a thought about some of the earlier posts about waiting for some period of time between visits to a medium or communication with the deceased. It seems to me that, especially if one is able to establish some connection with a "lost" loved one, seeking further communication or information or just the desire to remain in the company of someone who has passed on, might become a bit obsessive, and actually get in the way of the grieving process. I'm not saying this happens regularly, or necessarily applies to the individuals who posted here. But I can imagine someone becoming so focused on their deceased loved ones, that they might be distracted from the loved ones who remain here, or from their own needs or their own purpose in this life.

The recommendation to wait for a bit before contacting them again might, then, be intended as a gentle nudge back toward the survivor's "real" life and present duties, opportunities and relationships. Remaining too engaged in communication with the dead may be a way of avoiding the healthy and necessary process of mourning.

I agree with this logic and roundabout way of steering people back to the living, and not obsessing with the departed.

[Fasaga]

Hello again, dear DaughterDearest! I must confess that I don't see her hand moving the pendulum in this video, although I do see it shaking as she tries so hard to avoid letting it move as the pendulum moves. That pendulum has weight, and sometimes it moves vigorously! I have seen Carol and Mikey communicate this way in person a number of times and from various angles, and I can assure you personally that the pendulum moves entirely without her hand moving it. I was a complete skeptic when I first met Carol 17 months ago, and I really was trying to spot the trick! But there is no trick. That day I saw Mikey give through Carol wonderful personal messages to a series of bereaved mothers, and those messages sometimes had them in tears. I am confident that what Carol and Mikey are doing is real, and not so much because I have seen them do it but primarily because when I first met Carol she knew nothing whatsoever about the afterlife. Yet through her from Mikey has come a long series of perfect answers that could have come only from a very advanced and highly knowledgeable being. I have spent my life in this research! Yet Mikey knows even more than I do. And that is something that nobody could fake ;-)!

I must admit that I had to watch the videos several times, and at first, and in the early parts, I thought Carol's hands and fingures were moving too, but discounting for nerves and pendulum weight, and how hard she was trying to not shake and move, and then watching the whole thing, I'm happy that this is genuine, and I'm not easily convinced. I even tested and practiced myself to see if I could duplicate what I saw Carol doing and I couldn't replicate the movement of the pendulum.

[Fasaga]

Hello again Roberta (and all)!

Again, I didn't mean to sound like a Negative Nancy and I do apologize if I sounded insulting to Carol (and Mikey). That wasn't my intention nor will it ever be. I'm usually not one to stir up trouble (haha), I just find I'm questioning everything nowadays.

Yes, poeticblue, you're right in that I'm searching for answers. I have been for quite some time now. I just don't know what to believe!

I wish I could just pick up the phone and call my deceased loved ones on the other side. That would make my search so much easier and answer so many questions! *sigh*

Hi Dearest,

I don't think you've insulted or offended anyone here, we are prety open to opinions and ideas, and never critical of anyone seeking their personal truth. We all walk our own paths of enlightenment and acceptance and only time and opportunity will give you the answers you seek. Personally I have no doubts as to our eternal existance, and that is through sufficient personal validations. I don't feel as though I need the detailed in's and out's of the Afterlife, Levels, Summerlands etc, just knowing that we live on after death is enough for me now to focus on living this life to the fullest and doing what I can to help others live theirs.