If there is ever a case for a Soul to plan a difficult life for accellerated spiritual growth, then Tammy's life plan is a cracker.
Just before Tammy was conceived in 1971, her eldest brother drowned at age 10. The ambulance was involved in a motor vehicle accident being transfered from one hospital to another, Marky was on life support for 12 days before the parents were encouraged to turn off life support which they did.
The year before that, another brother was still born as a result of her mother being pushed down the stairs by her alchoholic husband, who then rolled the car on the way to hospital. Michael had passed but the parents were told that he needed to be carried full term. He was named and buried.
2 years before that, Della was born. At age 15 she was involved in a car accident that left her a quadraplegic. She died at age 30 and I've spoken of her on other threads.
2 years before that another brother was born. Danny lived for only a week. No apparent cause of death.
3 years before that, Tammy's sole surviving family member, her brother Geoff was born.
Now to Tammy's birth, due to ongoing medical complications, and obvious emotional trauma of the mother, Tammy's parents were warned that this pregnancy would almost certainly prove fatal for both mother and child if in the unlikely event the pregnancy made it to full term. Their recommendation was to terminate the pregnancy, failing that they wanted a waiver signed by the parents to allow Tammy to pass away if complications during birth endagered her mother. Tammy's mother refused to sign any such document and insisted that it be changed to ensure that Tammy would be given priority over herself. The Doctors worked miracles and both survived, Tammy was known as the miracle baby throughout the Hospital, mother and daughter were only reunited a full week after birth, mother was convinced the baby died untill then.
Had all previous children survived, the outcome could have been very different as they would have already had 5 children. Because of the number of children she had already lost, she couldn't bare to loose another and live to know about it.
Tammy's Mother and Sister passed away 15 years ago within 2 months of each other and because of circumstances, neither knew of the others passing, saving the mother from the pain of loosing another child. They are very much together now and Tammy has had the opportunity to communicate with them both at length.