What to ask a medium during a reading (to Sky and others)

[lithuania]

To Skye and others, perhaps you can suggest what questions I should ask when I do a call with a medium. I would like for the medium to try to connect with a loved one that passed away not long ago (I know that I should not provide any specific details as it is the job of the medium to validate things to show they are able to communicate with the deceased)-that said, are there specific questions I should ask the medium?
Thanks.

[TriciaA]

Hi lithuania
I have had a few readings with a Medium, face to face and also over the phone. There have been times when I hoped to hear from someone very dear to me, however, he only came through on the very rare occasion. Usually before I contacted a Medium, I'd send my thoughts out and asked if that certain person could come through and just hope he did Some Mediums do ask if you have any questions and as you know, it's always best not to feed the reader. However, you could mention that a certain loved one recently passed away and you were wondering if perhaps he/she could connect, without, of course saying who this person is. If the Medium is able to make a good connection, he/she will give you evidence of that.

I asked a long time about someone, however, at that time no connection was made. Do bare in mind sometimes it takes a while for loved ones to come through, especially if they passed over within a short time of a reading taking place. Well, these are my thoughts on it I'm sure there will be a few more posts regarding your question lithuania

[lithuania]

Thanks Tricia, this medium has told me to write down questions I wanted to pose to her at the start of the reading. I cannot think of anything to ask other than whether they can communicate with the one person who died recently. What else does one ask a medium given that it is not supposed to be a psychic reading where I would ask about my career, etc.?

[Skye]

Hi lithuania,

I think a person would want to know is whether they are receiving the info from spirit or from the sitter (psychic). I wouldn't be asking too many questions, just be open to the sitting. But make sure you have the type of reading you are in most need of otherwise this may be a waste of your hard earned money.

I would ask if she is an evidential medium? Or, is she a psychic?

If she claims to be a medium and couldn't communicate with a known spirit communicator, would she give you your money back?

If you are interested in knowing about your career and other things and there's been no mention of it by a known communicator then ask at the end of the session before the medium closes down.

Just answer yes, no, I don't know or I don't understand, to any info she passes on. Bite your lip if need be.

It will be interesting to see what others may ask.

[lithuania]

Thank you Skye. She is a medium and psychic (I am most interested in the medium work but will probably ask some psychic type questions as I cannot imagine that she could talk for one hr about the person I want her to try to connect with-I know it is not her fault if she cannot connect with this one person so perhaps she could also try to connect with other family members that have passed). I will let you know the results after I have had the reading.

[TriciaA]

Wishing you all the best with your reading lithuania

[Andrew]

Thank you Skye. She is a medium and psychic (I am most interested in the medium work but will probably ask some psychic type questions as I cannot imagine that she could talk for one hr about the person I want her to try to connect with-I know it is not her fault if she cannot connect with this one person so perhaps she could also try to connect with other family members that have passed). I will let you know the results after I have had the reading.

Good luck!

[Skye]

Hoping you have a wonderful sitting lithuania.