for Carol and Mikey please

[Carol and Mikey]

Tom,
Welcome to the forums! I am aware of this "connection" technique by Rochelle Wright, but I do not remember a lot about the specifics of it. I listened to her speak at a conference about this 1.5 years ago. Mikey tells me that there is a communication connection made. He feels it is real. Mikey also tells me the EMDR technique is necessary. So I asked him why! (I have no idea!) He tells me it is needed for the "mind" to detach from the influence of the brain for communication to be more fluent without "interference". So who knows! This is what he tells me. Mikey was definately present at the conference I was at.
Carol and Mikey "in Spirit"

[Tom]

Hi Carol & Mikey,
Thank you for answer! I understand what Mikey wants to say about the EMDR technique.
I asked this question because I also came across "Phill G coffee time" technique. A technique to make connection with your loved ones without EMDR. You can see and hear him explain it here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jN4SOjwY2Mw
I'm curious what Mikey has to tell about this technique....
Warm blessings,
Tiom

[Carol and Mikey]

Hi Tom,
I watched the video. I never heard of this guy before. But I will tell you that I actually did this often after Mikey's passing "feeling" he would hear me. I literally started to do this right away after I heard the news of the accident. And the signs started very soon after. And they were good ones! I always talked to him out loud and continue to do so often. So I know this is a real concept. Mikey tells me they absolutely hear us talking. The loving connection is never gone! Now I know people thought I was losing it when I did this, but I did not care. I hurt so bad, and talking out loud helped me greatly. I know I have recommended talking out loud to your loved ones before on this forum. Mikey tells me that talking out loud is still the best way for them to hear us. Telepathy can progress from that. Great question!
Carol and Mikey "in Spirit"

[vic smyth]

"Phill G coffee time" technique.

A glass of wine works well too! I had the most amazing ADC from my mother once while sipping some wine and watching a storm come in. As I got a little buzz I thought of my mom and how lucky I was to have her. All of a sudden I was shocked to see two flower-like appliques appear in the condensation on a window in my home-office-meditation hut. I thought at first that the kids bounced something against it from the outside. But it was on the inside (the kids rarely ever go in there). I spent hours searching for something that could have made this, toys, paper towels, etc. I could find no explanation for it! But it's not something that I can make happen like Carol and Mikey.

With Lovingkindness (metta),
vic

[Bella]

I think I understand about the mind detaching from the brain, as Mikey explains. When I saw my husband's apparition, I was in a hypnagogic state, between asleep and awake, extremely relaxed and not thinking. He appeared on the left side of my head while my eyes were closed. I had an instinctive feeling that if I began to think about what was happening (thus, using my brain, as Mikey explains) this would be over. Each time he has made contact since then I was in the same state. I have also had EMDR, and as the eyes move from left to right, the same process occurs: the brain detaches. Interestingly, Vic, when I reread my notes, detailing the circumstances surrounding each communication, I realized that I had either taken some relaxant, such as advil pm, or sleeping pill (which I took more of months ago and have tapered down to once per week now), so it makes sense that a glass of wine would achieve the same result. The bilateral stimulation aids the process, of course. I have used the cd, gone into a meditative state and received communication that way as well, but I must, at all times, be in a deeply relaxed non-thinking state. I do believe that this technique does indeed lead to authentic communication because I have received information from my husband that I would not have thought of on my own.

[Carol and Mikey]

Vic and Bella,
When this type of communication occurs like you have described, it is hard to deny. It is an experience that gives such great hope and peace in knowing that you will see your loved ones again. As Mikey tells me, "It just is what it is!"
Carol and Mikey "in Spirit"

[Fasaga]

I've just come back from catching up for coffee with a friend I hadn't seen for 6 months. The last time we saw each other she was still extremely grief stricken from loosing her 75 year old mother to cancer towards the end of last year. She was in such a positive frame of mind today I couldn't help myself from asking if she had been getting signs from her mum. Well, her face just lit up, she couldn't believe I would ask such a question and now she had someone she could actually talk to about it. Her mum now speaks to her regularly, helps locate missing things like her fathers mobile, plays jokes on her like hiding significant trinkets and certainly letting her know that she is OK and watching over them. Just more validation from a previous non believer.

[Bella]

Fasaga,
This is such an inspiring story. Thank you. May I ask when was the last time you saw her? Four months ago? Three? I'm feeling really alone lately, and when I try to perk up, something else happens. This morning my beautiful thirteen-year-old lab mix had a seizure and now she can't walk and is being watched by our vet. I am numb. February my father passed, two weeks prior, my uncle passed, and in May my husband. My house is increasingly more quiet, and I am feeling so down. Please tell me when things started to improve for your friend.

[Fasaga]

Hi Bella

I haven't seen my friend for just over six months, so January this year, her mother passed around October Last Year, from our conversation her first real sign from her mother came about May this year so it was about 7 months after her mother passed. From the first to the now bellowing voice of her mother (she was a loud and bousterous woman with a great jolly personality) was a short time of only a few weeks. My friends sister is still prety upset and especially now because she also wants a sign and just hasn't gotten it yet, but we both sort of agreed that this was probably because she is still so distraught that she just isn't open to the signs yet.

[Bella]

From the first to the now bellowing voice of her mother (she was a loud and bousterous woman with a great jolly personality) was a short time of only a few weeks. My friends sister is still prety upset and especially now because she also wants a sign and just hasn't gotten it yet, but we both sort of agreed that this was probably because she is still so distraught that she just isn't open to the signs yet.[/QUOTE]

Hi Fasaga,
Thank you so much, dear friend Fasaga! Yes, your friend's sister probably is not getting signs because she is so distraught, but it is so difficult not to be. Since the onset of my participation on this forum and my research in the afterlife, I have, ironically, become increasingly aware of the beauty of our low vibrating physical realm. How I miss that voice box, as your friend's sister does her mother's jolly voice. May I ask whether your friend, who got the signs, actually heard her mother's voice? This truly fascinates me because the other morning, my husband's beautiful voice, with its Latin accent and depth, came into my head to give me car advice before I went to the dealer (he is such a car fanatic). Then my thought was (Roberta, Carol, Mikey and Skye, please help here!), how did he project his voice? Was this something I revived from my memory? If mediums communicate through telepathy then are accents gone in the afterlife? Can you please tell me about the voice, Fasaga? What did you mean by that?