Thats just the way I have always felt, I was converting to Buddhism, and I guess you could say I am more Buddhist in nature than anything else I Chant...etc) but the whole reincarnation thang is quite the 'Deal-Breaker' for me. I believe maybe the 'Soul' might be reincarnated, and lives on, however...IMO...I believe strongly that there is a difference between the 'Soul' life and 'Spirit' life, two ENTIRELY different things, and that it is in fact your 'Spirit' that goes to heaven, NOT your Soul. Other than that...I have no idea what heaven will be like, only that it wont be ANYTHING like here, and if by chance I am going to Hell, there will be a LONG line of people in front of me, and they will all be saying..."Oh, its okay You can go First !" LOL !!!
Take Care :-)
Lol, I'm glad to see someone else is apalled by the idea of reincarnation. You might as well die if you lose your identity and who you were, relationships, loved ones, memories, experiences learned. I still don't understand why leave heaven if it is the best place ever to go back to suffering. Kind of like leaving Hawaii for Antartica or Syria where there's bombings.
What is your belief and take on heaven then?